All men have different gifts and different abilities. There is no single set of characteristics that make up what a real man is or what a real man should be.  Traditionally, Indigenous men had roles and responsibilities to serve in and participate in creating and maintaining healthy and sustainable communities. Our society is ever changing and our daily lives are constantly evolving. Yet these traditional roles and responsibilities are still important for Indigenous men today. 

I am a Kind Man strongly supports healthy sexuality and the inclusion of people from all gender and sexual identities including those who identify with an LGBTTIQQ2SAPA community (Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transsexual, Transgender, Intersex, Queer, Questioning, 2-Spirited, Asexual, PanSexual, and Allies).  In order to become healthy men in our communities we must respect the identities of all individuals. 

As Indigenous men we know that we all come from diverse backgrounds. There are many different Indigenous Nations and languages in Canada, all with differing practices and traditions.  Traditionally both men’s and women’s roles and responsibilities were treated as equally important. Today we must recognize that both men and women can share the same responsibilities, so long as they create balance and a healthy community. The I am a Kind Man campaign does not privilege the knowledge of men over women. Just because something is traditional or a long standing practice, does not mean it is correct.  Openness to change is important to a healthy Indigenous man’s identity. Sometimes it takes courage to create change.